For brides and grooms, it’s a stormy sea. Everything in your lives is awash in change. And it’s not settling down soon. Try as you might, you cannot calm the sea. Brides, be the lighthouse for your wedding. Grooms, be the lighthouse for your bride. When you can see through the storm, the clouds will begin to lift. We can help.
In everything we do, we’re looking for joy.
Your wedding is no exception. What would a joyful wedding be for you?
We think every bride deserves not just “her day,” but “her joyful day.” Joy is your choice. We say, it must be your first choice and that you must make this choice again and again in every decision you make. Your wedding planning serves you as a great place to learn and practice this lesson.
Brides, we understand this is a strange and wonderful time in your life. All at once you’re the center of attention, moving into your wedding dream and your marriage dream.
At the same moment, everything is changing. Your relationship with everyone you love feels different somehow – even your honey. Decisions swirl around you – demanding your attention.
Peace seems beyond your grasp.
Breathe. It doesn’t have to be this crazy!
Even before your engagement you knew planning your wedding would be crazy. But this crazy? Understanding what’s happening to you in this strange adventure creates a new perspective – one that helps you cope – and better – one that can actually provide a solid foundation for your joyful marriage.
Understand the three worlds you live in simultaneously while you’re planning your wedding, and why it’s so hard to manage all three at once.
See each relationship in your life changing and learn to reset your connection to those most precious to you so they’re eager to support you, your joyful wedding, and your joyful marriage.
Learn to co-create a wedding ceremony that captures your deepest hopes and dreams for a joyful marriage and a joyful life.
Remember -
You’re OK.
You don’t need to be fixed.
Joy is your goal.
Joy is your choice.
You’re in a crazy situation.
It’s crazy for everyone in it.
There IS hope!
You are not alone!
Joyce S. Kaye and Roger Wyer, non-denominational ordained ministers and wedding coaches, help you celebrate you, your wedding, and your marriage.
We help you learn to use your wedding to set a strong foundation for the marriage you deserve.
We support you as you tackle your most stressful issues in safety and learn to find and hold your joy.
Together we zero in on what’s working about your wedding planning – and what’s not. We share stories, ideas, strategies, and tools you can use to pave your path to a joyful wedding and a joyful marriage.
There’s no reason to postpone your joy – let’s begin today!
